(via beauty-from-ashes)
I’VE BEEN MISSING YOU SO MUCH.
According to one of my psychological test which is the “EMOTIONAL PROFILE INDEX”, I have a psychopathic tendency.
Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.
As well as, Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.
| Question: | I'm dating a man. I'm completely ready to commit, but I'm not sure he's ready for marriage. |
| Answer: | Are you kidding? I wouldn't date those guys. Men should step up, seal the deal, commit, and be a man. You gotta be a man, not a boy. There is an epidemic in this culture where guys are allowed to be boys too long. I know it's hard for girls to talk to him about it, but her dad should probably step up and ask him what his plan is and why he's pursuing her and if he is considering marriage to her and when he will be proposing. Your goal shouldn't be to have good dates, but to have a good marriage. Being fearful is okay... being like, "okay, I'm gonna give my whole life to this woman marry and have children and pay the bills." Part of that fear is okay, but if that fear becomes paralyzing to the point where you can't pursue her anymore, then you should be meeting with older godly men who will help you figure out why you lack courage and confidence and work on that first. |
I want a guy whom I can be comfortable with. A guy who would hold my hand at the mall. A guy who would sing to me at random moments. A guy who is more goofy than romantic. A guy who would throw stuffed animals at me when I`m acting dumb. A guy who would bet me kisses that he could beat me at the old play station games and then let me win. A guy who would make fun of me just to hear me laugh and see me smile. A guy who would play with my hair all the time and surprises me with cheap-yet-cute rings. A guy who I could share lollipops with and lay on a blanket with to count the stars. A guy who I could take silly photos together and play water guns with. But most importantly, I want someone who would be my best friend and would never break my heart. Someone who could make me smile, always.
